Includes index.

Introduction / Carter Sickels -- We are not "just like everyone else" : how the gay marriage movement fails queer families / Ben Anderson-Nathe -- Holding hands in pocatello / Pamela Helberg -- The gay revolution will be televised : viewer discretion is advised / Emanuel Xavier -- We were a pretty picture / Ariel Gore -- Marriage throws a monkey wrench / Jeanne Cordova -- Changing my mind / Francesca Royster -- The days of the phoenix and the emerald city / Casey Plett -- Erasure / Irish Bendix -- We're not going anywhere / Chelsea Rice -- Sakura, ayame, and a cotton judogi / Ryka Aoki -- The boys club / Tucker Garcia -- Allegiance to scarcity : marriage and liberation / Fabian Romero -- Six-point win / Penny Guisinger -- Bê ê pride / Minh Pham -- Wedding bells are breaking up that old gang of mine : the loss of legal protections for LGBT families in the wake of gay marriage victories / Joseph DeFelippis -- We have cancer / Meg Stone -- A diagram of my family / BR Sanders -- Shaping bronx queer activism / Charles Rice-Gonzalez -- It's complicated : a trans perspective on the marriage debate / Jackson and Kristopher Schultz -- The empire builder / A.M. O'Malley -- Unequal wedding / Regina Sewell -- In a small town, nothing goes wrong / Everett Maroon -- Beyond having / Sailor Holladay -- When outlaws marry / Judith Barrington -- Turbo / Mel Wells.